After almost two years of being married we are naturally bombarded with questions such as
“When is the baby coming?”
“Are you already expecting?”
“No? So when do you plan do you plan on having a baby?”
“Sorry but do you have fertility problems?”
“Don’t you ever like to have babies?”
I always answer these questions politely although sometimes they are kind annoying especially when they come from people who are obviously nosey.
Thing is, we are not yet pregnant because we want to stay that way for the time being. That is to say—we are carefully planning and preparing for it but we are also open to surprises. We will always welcome pregnancy whether it happens now or later like we plan. And when it does, it will certainly be great time for me and my husband. It will be my first time and I am quite happy to know that I have loving a loving husband, parents and in-laws who will support me through the process and will help me and give me tips about pregnancy and about raising a child. And if that is not enough, there are websites created to help expectant parents. Websites such as ParentsConnect.com answers and discusses questions that may arise before or during pregnancy. They have expert advices column that offers pregnancy guidance and support from professionals and there is also a forum where parents can simply share about their pregnancy issues and help others with theirs. This website has the answers to various questions about pregnancy and other things connected to being pregnant.
Such websites are truly helpful to parents who are experiencing a wonderful and special time.