My Thought on Friendship
A real friend does not only cheer you up when your down, does not only help when you’re in trouble, does not only listen and be there when you cry. A friend does more. A real friend is sincere and frank and may not agree always agree with you. She’ll tell you you’re wrong when she thinks you are. She’ll tell you that you look cheap and stupid in those clothes or with that make up before anyone starts making fun of you then she’ll urge you to change. She’ll tell you that your decision is wrong when she thinks you’re doomed but she’ll be there. A real friend sees and protects your interests and not only hers.
If you are blessed to find one, keep her by being a friend to her just like she is to you. Never let her down because this world full of leeches and you’ll never know if you’ll find a real good friend again.
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