I had a bad experience with playing cupid and I’ve learned from it but that doesn’t mean I’ve stopped. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with introducing single friends to each other. I actually think it’s good and that is not because I believe in the old Chinese belief that luck will be brought to those who successfully helped arranged a successful union/relationship. For me, it’s just nice to see two of my friends falling in love with each other.

Good old “waiting for Mr./Ms. Right” is not bad but for those who’ve been waiting for so long, I think they have to do something to stop their waiting. I think they should be proactive at finding someone who can be their partner for life. We are very modern these days. Other than sitting in a bar and hoping that the cute guy will notice you, there are also other ways to meet someone–go out more often, join a group, ask a friend if he/she knows somebody, or go online and try some dating sites… the possibilities are endless.

A lot of people still prefer the traditional way of meeting new people but a growing number of singles all over the world are opening up to online dating. Online dating is easy especially if you are the shy type because you get to postpone face to face encounter. Online dating enables you to get to know a person through talking first (this way, you avoid the pressure of physical intimacy) then when you are good and ready to meet each other personally, you can simply agree on the time and date.

There are a lot of available resources on the net about online dating so if you are thinking of trying out this new way of searching a partner, it wouldn’t hurt to read a few articles about it. Doing so will give you information on how to succeed with online dating. You’ll also be warned about what to avoid and what to do when things don’t turn out well.

I personally don’t have anything against online dating and meeting people online because based on my personal experience, I’ve met quite a lot of real nice people through the World Wide Web who share the same interests like mine. These people later became my friends.

One of our friends (who is a bachelor) once said that it’s getting more and more awkward to approach a girl in a bar or in restaurant simply because the people in these places doesn’t seem to be “looking for something” or that most of the girls in there are aiming for something else other than a possible relationship. I believe he has a point there. Why not just go somewhere where you can be sure that the people you’ll be meeting have the same interests like yours. In the net where chatting is offered, you’ll immediate know where to go because there are different “Chat Rooms” for different people. If you are a single parent and would like to meet and talk to other single parents, you can go to “Single Parent Chat”. It’s as easy as that.

I think that chocolate gifts and flowers always melt the hearts of women who receive them. A man can never go wrong about giving a woman flowers and chocolates because these are always welcome no matter what the occasion is.

You see, I do hate moving and that means packing, transporting and unpacking things. I think I moved from one place to another like more than 10 times in my life. Now that I am married, people I know (like my mom) kind of expect that I am more settled and that I should be raising a family together with my husband already. That means we’re expected to have a kid and to live in a place where we can stay for the rest of our lives.

We are on our way to that place but right now, we are still preparing for it. I do hate moving but I’d do it again  because I  can’t imagine being away from my husband. If the situation asks for it, then we’ll move again together and we’ll build a home to whatever that is.

Why not look for Asian Singles who are also looking for someone like you. AsianMatching.com is the newest place to meet and chat with Asians who are exciting and friendly with unique culture and colorful tradition. Who knows, what you are looking for is just waiting for you in the other side of the world.

Wow, that’s a whole lot of personal information if you ask me. Internet has truly gone way beyond far. To some extent it is good to be able to access such info but what if these info gets to the hand of bad people? (*shook head)

Vienna: Schatzi, Why did you marry me?
Marcus: Because I thought you were rich?
Vienna: What? What made you think that? Did I give you the impression that I am rich?
Marcus: You told me several times that you have 7,107 islands but I learned after the wedding that you don’t even own one.
Vienna: (LOL)

FYI: Philippines have 7,107 islands and we Filipinos normallly say: “We” have 7,107 islands when we mean Philippines has 7,107 islands.

Call me shallow but I really like our nonsense talks sometimes.

My cousin who lives in New Jersey has been married for 10 long years to her childhood sweetheart. Theirs is a typical married life full of ups and downs and they are still struggling to keep their marriage in good shape. I know exactly what they’ve gone through and how they were able to keep their relationship afloat. That is why, whenever my husband and I are having problems [which I know is typical to any relationship] I have her to give me good advice. And one of the advices that she gave me is to have a good marriage counselors. She said, her marriage will not survive the storm without the marriage counselors in New Jersey.

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