One Basic Ingredient to a Happy Married Life

I married late in life and just celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary. It was tough. The adjustment period is both a chance to make sacrifices and an opportunity to take life-changing decisions. It was indeed a hard work. But we are surviving, so to speak. Married life is both a hard work and the survival of the fittest. One needs to be emotionally fit to fight the ups and downs of the married life.

My cousin who lives in New Jersey has been married for 10 long years to her childhood sweetheart. Theirs is a typical married life full of ups and downs and they are still struggling to keep their marriage in good shape. I know exactly what they’ve gone through and how they were able to keep their relationship afloat. That is why, whenever my husband and I are having problems [which I know is typical to any relationship] I have her to give me good advice. And one of the advices that she gave me is to have a good marriage counselors. She said, her marriage will not survive the storm without the marriage counselors in New Jersey.

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Text Me, Text You

textI usually bring my new phone everywhere I go now. I have no choice because Hubby might call or text me anytime or the other way around. Hubby gets a regular “I love U” text from me now and I get the “I love u 2” text back most of the time too. But more than anything else, I am more than happy with my phone for its alarm feature. I set the alarm on 3 different times… 5am for my wakeup call… 8am for my “jog-run-walk” time… and 9am for my prayer time.

The Online Love Bug

mouseWhen I left home to be with the “love of my life”, a lot of people were happy especially those still-single-and-hoping-and-praying friends of mine. My exodus means one significant thing – Hope. Hope that someday, they too will find their own individual “soul mates“.

And since I left, a lot of them are busy fishing for the “love of their lives” online. I think the left behind the online-love-bug.

The Search for that Special Someone

As you may know by now, I met the “love of my life” online. I am a hopeless romantic and I searched for my one-true-love and not the other way around. And I went global to find my knight-in-shining armor. Therefore, I was into online dating. This is the most practical and modern way to find that special person.

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My Life-line

The Internet is my life-line to my “other parts of my life”. I am an immigrant from the Philippines. Coming to U.S. is a major drastic decision I have ever made so far in my entire life. I left behind my family… my friends… my roots. I did this to be with the “love of my life”.

The Internet is instrumental to meeting the “love of my life.” I met him online. And since then we were inseparable. Mountains were moved… oceans were crossed… boundaries were transcended – just to be together for good. I did it all for the “love of my life”.

The Internet is still my life-line to my “life” back home. Everyday I would talk to my brothers back home. Everyday I would talk to them… asking how their day was… most of the time joking with them… sometimes crying with them… other times giving each other strength… and few times, just viewing them on the webcam. I miss them so much. They are my partners-in-crime.

The Internet makes relationship accessible… connected… and on-line [other synonyms please].

Random Thoughts on the Go

I am sitting right here in Lei Cafe Beijing Airport having coffee and updating my blog. I have to use the internet as much as I can now because for sure, I won’t have a very generous internet connection when I get home in our oh-so-remote town.

This is my view from right here.

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That is my flight right there and I have to check-in in a bit. Chinese New Year is not my favourite time of the year to travel because airports are crowded; flights are more expensive accommodations in hotels are more expensive as well. Hate it.

I am coming home empty handed. My three nephews will look at me and wonder why their aunt Vienna doesn’t have anything for them. I can imagine now that this will break my heart. See, I didn’t know until a few days ago that I will be going home to the Philippines. We were expecting to go there in March so I said ok from now until March, we have time to go to for a weekend in Beijing to do some shopping but unfortunately that didn’t happen. Marcus working schedule changed and so the rest followed. Nobody’s fault. I was feeling a little bit heavy-hearted last night about going home empty handed but Marcus said we will make it up to them when he gets there (he will follow in a few days).

I won’t be seeing my husband for a few days. This is our first time to be apart from each other since we got married. Would be very interesting how it will be. As for me, I miss him already.